Podcast Interview: Awakened Woman Self-Care Podcast

Podcast Interview: Awakened Woman Self-Care Podcast

Host Christine Pensa welcomed me to her podcast to talk about our expanding human capacity to be unstoppable. The episode was taped on the day the paperback version of my new book, 30 Days to Unstoppable, Be the Dream Made Visible, launched.

This book sprang from a channeled teaching. “Is a call for humanity to pick up a new way of being and caring for ourselves—because everything begins as energy first, then manifests as matter. Therefore, we can learn to care for ourselves, to create, to energetically imagine into what it is we want to experience in our lives, and matter has to follow that energy.”

I really loved chatting with Christine about my new book and the channeling that inspired it. You can listen to the full episode here

Painting the 7 Laws of the Universe

Painting the 7 Laws of the Universe

Since we are exploring HOW POWERFUL YOU ARE, LET'S REMEMBER INTO HOW TO CO-CREATE WITH THE VASTNESS OF THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE! Excerpt from the Companion Journal to 30 Days to Unstoppable... LAW of the UNIVERSE:  Just as I was finishing the writing of 30 Days to...

Introducing Tammy Roth

Introducing Tammy Roth

What I know for sure is that the MORE we honor & lift up others, the more we honor our own journeys and receive exactly what we need, when we need it, to RISE ABOVE ourselves!  Today we want to introduce you to Tammy Roth. You can explore her world even more...

Introducing Karen Adamski

Introducing Karen Adamski

What I know for sure is that the MORE we honor & lift up others, the more we honor our own journeys and receive exactly what we need, when we need it, to RISE ABOVE ourselves!  Today we want to introduce you to Karen Adamski. You can explore her world even more...

Exploring The New Relationship Paradigm

Exploring The New Relationship Paradigm

Exploring The New Relationship Paradigm

The New Relationship Paradigm is a new “canvas” on which you get to be the artist of your heart and express love, acceptance, compassion and wisdom…no matter what.

The story of the “white picket fence” family, riding off into the sunset with Prince(ss) Charming, or living Happily Ever After with our one true love is changing. The truth is that it has changed.

Old stories, like the one that has defined divorce as a failure or the one that led us to believe that we are somehow “less than” if we are single, are begging to be rewritten. Dear reader, resistance to these changes is futile and this is your invitation into the New Relationship Paradigm.

Just look at the paradigm that existed in the “Beaver Cleaver” era, with its roles, labels and expectations. How different is that to today when so many more ways of living are now acceptable, there are so many more choices on all levels of modern, western living and we have exponentially more information awareness available to us?

The invitation is to shift your perspective on the role a significant, romantic relationship plays in your life and to objectively and authentically create your own truth around what you want and why. This shift does not mean that the ’til-death-do-us-part is extinct. It just means that there are more “colors on our palette” right now.

In my own journey, I have experienced leaving the “picture perfect” life, divorcing when my three kids were in elementary/ junior high school and being faced with the choice to believe that I had just screwed up my kids and ruined my life, or to believe that I was creating new opportunities for all of us to grow and learn. Was I conditionally loved, loved only if I “followed the rules,” or could I expect to find unconditional love that allowed me to be fully, completely me?

As the world around me echoed these musings, watching so many friends divorce and struggle with the right and wrong of it all, I committed to doing everything I could to birth a new story—one that was more reflective of our truth and the nature of modern living today.

The 3 Top Characteristics of the New Relationship Paradigm…

Relationships are where we learn our greatest life lessons.

Relationships are no longer about filling a void or completing yourself. We are ATTRACTED to another because they mirror for us something that we want to embody ourselves. We want to learn from our new partner how to be more… adventurous, compassionate, wise, funny, courageous, spiritual…. The attraction is there so that we engage on an intimate level and receive, just as intimately, an awakening, within ourselves, to a new facet of who we are and how we can express ourselves. We learn. How long is the relationship meant to last? Depends on the nature of what you have come together to learn. Sometimes the learning is over. The opportunity to separate will make itself available. No right or wrong, just a new beginning presenting itself with your new lessons ensconced in your heart. What if that was all exactly as it should be?

Relationships are not defined by fear, but love.

In her book Committed, Elizabeth Gilbert explores the history of marriage. It may not be what you think. The origins of “’til death do we part” have more to do with securing land rights and basic survival than it does to any intrinsic human standards of a “good” or “successful” partnership. One could argue that the contract of marriage is fear based. It is an illusive guarantee that you are now safe, will be loved forever, and will never have to be alone. As we all know, there are no guarantees.

In the new relationship paradigm, our most intimate relationship is with ourselves. Our “beloved” is ourselves. We now understand that it is only when we love ourselves unconditionally that we can love others unconditionally. That means that I will love you no matter what—including if our life paths seem to be diverging. You love yourself enough to not fear being alone and you love your partner enough to want what is best for her/ him. There is no scarcity of love and no need to hold onto a relationship that has become toxic, unsupportive, depleting or an obligation.

If you knew you had only more love to express and discover in your life, would you hold on so white-knuckled to a relationship that you honestly wished was different? LOVE motivates the new relationship paradigm, not fear.

Relationships never really end, they transform.

A lover can become a best friend. A spouse can become your greatest teacher, your co-parent and a source of support. Just because the romance ends, does that mean the relationship does? Or does it just change? Do you recognize the significant role you played in each other’s lives and continue to honor that bond in infinite ways?

Are you changed because of this romance? Are you wiser, stronger, more compassionate, or more loving? What have you learned? And is it so horrible that you now each have new lessons to learn? What if your most significant relationships became like a family? People you could count on or ask for support or ask to listen because they know you well; they know your strengths and your weaknesses? How much of your “story” around your “ex” has been written by someone else, from a fear based perspective, or by an out-of-date picture of what a “successful” relationship looks like?

The New Relationship Paradigm invites you into a new level of trust. Can you trust yourself to love you the best way possible? Can you trust that life is always guiding you into new opportunities to learn and grow? Albert Einstein said that the most important decision you will ever make is to choose whether or not you live in a friendly or unfriendly universe.

If you choose to live in a friendly universe, I am challenging you to open up to all the ways you can create a new image of what the relationships in your life are truly here to offer you. You are creating your reality in each and every moment. The New Relationship Paradigm is a new “canvas” on which you get to be the artist of your heart and express love, acceptance, compassion and wisdom…no matter what.

Painting the 7 Laws of the Universe

Painting the 7 Laws of the Universe

Since we are exploring HOW POWERFUL YOU ARE, LET'S REMEMBER INTO HOW TO CO-CREATE WITH THE VASTNESS OF THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE! Excerpt from the Companion Journal to 30 Days to Unstoppable... LAW of the UNIVERSE:  Just as I was finishing the writing of 30 Days to...

Introducing Tammy Roth

Introducing Tammy Roth

What I know for sure is that the MORE we honor & lift up others, the more we honor our own journeys and receive exactly what we need, when we need it, to RISE ABOVE ourselves!  Today we want to introduce you to Tammy Roth. You can explore her world even more...

Introducing Karen Adamski

Introducing Karen Adamski

What I know for sure is that the MORE we honor & lift up others, the more we honor our own journeys and receive exactly what we need, when we need it, to RISE ABOVE ourselves!  Today we want to introduce you to Karen Adamski. You can explore her world even more...

I’m Not In It For The Money

I’m Not In It For The Money

I’m Not In It For The Money

Excited to share the evolution of this painting with you AND offer you a reframe so you can make money doing what you love!!!! 

First, watch the time-lapse video of this painting coming to life! 

Now that you are in your Green Tara happy place, I want to share with you a reframe–why you LOVE making money as a creative… 

Join Dawn and me for the next Creatives Making Money 30 Day Biz Challenge HERE

Do you feel you are living YOUR Inspired Life? 

Seriously. 

You can.

Comment below and share one thing you can do today that will inspire the art that is your life!!! You got this! 

 

Painting the 7 Laws of the Universe

Painting the 7 Laws of the Universe

Since we are exploring HOW POWERFUL YOU ARE, LET'S REMEMBER INTO HOW TO CO-CREATE WITH THE VASTNESS OF THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE! Excerpt from the Companion Journal to 30 Days to Unstoppable... LAW of the UNIVERSE:  Just as I was finishing the writing of 30 Days to...

Introducing Tammy Roth

Introducing Tammy Roth

What I know for sure is that the MORE we honor & lift up others, the more we honor our own journeys and receive exactly what we need, when we need it, to RISE ABOVE ourselves!  Today we want to introduce you to Tammy Roth. You can explore her world even more...

Introducing Karen Adamski

Introducing Karen Adamski

What I know for sure is that the MORE we honor & lift up others, the more we honor our own journeys and receive exactly what we need, when we need it, to RISE ABOVE ourselves!  Today we want to introduce you to Karen Adamski. You can explore her world even more...